3's Company

                                                 

                                                                    

3’s Company!

            In a recent chat with some FB friends, the question was asked, “How open are you to a 3sum?”  For minute, the chat went quiet. I assumed everyone was waiting on someone else to come out and answer.  Finally a female friend commented and said that she had been in multiple 3sums and she enjoyed them.  A guy in the chat came out and said, he also had been involved in a 3sum, and he had a blast. His only issue was that he could never do it with the woman he was to marry (we will come back to that). In this day and age more and more men and women are engaging in sexual activity involving 3,4,5, or maybe even more partners at once. By definition an orgy.  Is this wrong?  No.  Is it right?  No.  It’s whatever makes you happy. 

            Group sex is not mainstream, other than what you see in porn or in your personal life. It is still frowned upon by the masses, but is greatly practiced.  How do I know? Touch your nose.  That’s not your business. 

            Being open to the idea of a 3sum is just like the idea of trying a new food.  You can’t go into with the mindset that you already don’t like it.  If you gonna do it, it will require trust from all parties involved.  Doesn’t matter if it’s FMF, MFM, FFF, or MMM**.  It requires trust. Trust that everyone is mentally and physically able to deal with it. You can’t be a man trying to have a 3sum and you got no stamina to please both women.  That’s the quickest way to get put on the “Do Not Call” list.  Ladies, you also can’t get so infatuated with each other that you forget about him.  Those other combos…..I don’t know what to tell you. Just make sure you stretch before the big game. 

            Back to this guy who says he can’t do a 3sum with his main chick.  Okay, let’s look at this.  Fellas you CANNOT be a freak and be closed off from the idea that your girl is one too.  If anything, any freak nasty stuff you can think of or seen in porn, the first person you should be willing to try it with is the “First Lady”.  Don’t be naïve to the fact that she has a past just like you do. And maybe she did some things before you met, but that’s where you heart should be, so why not explore together.  I promise it will bring you closer, and you’ll have much more fun.  Now that we have touched that. Everyone should be open to new things in the bedroom. Just make sure you have made peace with yourself and those involved.  So with that said. 3’s not a crowd unless you want it to be.  3 can be a great company as long as you got a solid foundation. So couples go find somebody this week and have a 3sum just for fun.  Lol. 

***: FMF- male 2 female; MFM- female, 2 males; FFF- 3 females; MMM-3males